Fall tablescape with persimmonsIt’s officially fall, and I’ve gone into entertaining overdrive. It might have been the convergence of the Coho salmon my husband caught in Alaska that was now resting in the freezer; the arrival of the Jewish New Year; working a gig with clever butcherettes Lindy & Grundy; and a kitchen full of ingredients demanding to be used. (My version of impulse buying: Cox Orange Pippin apples, must have! Comice pears, can’t live without!) Or maybe these elements simply touched what inspires and makes me happy: family and friends gathered around my table sharing good food.

The end result is that we entertained three times in five days, a record even for me. We were fifteen for Rosh Hashanah, eight for the first night of gravlax, and six for the second. This meant I was pin-boning fish for one meal while my husband carved brisket for another. It was a flurry of delicious activity with a k.d. lang soundtrack.

As bold an undertaking as this appears, there was great simplicity to the dishes (plus a judicious parceling out of tasks) that made the feat possible. Drama came from the ingredients’ excellence rather than complicated components I had to execute. I roasted a whole Rancho San Julian brisket from Lindy & Grundy, and the oven did all the work. The only add-ins were onions, garlic, fresh bay leaves, a tiny sprinkle of salt and paprika, and best seasoning of all, an hour of high-heat browning followed by long slow braising. Dessert—a medley of roasted early autumn fruits that bubbled away in the oven while we ate—were boldly served from the paella pan in which they’d roasted.


Is there any dish showier or easier to make and serve than a side of cured salmon? Once you make a “sandwich” of two fillets, salt, sugar, white pepper and dill and weigh it down, the only challenge is remembering to turn it every twelve hours for a couple of days. The traditional recipe from my old New York Times Cookbook works like a charm. I made a couple of simple salads, steamed German butterball potatoes, set out some interesting cheeses, rustic black breads, and a good lingonberry preserve, and spent the evening at the table with my friends.

Of the three evenings, my favorite was the last: an impromptu Monday gathering in the kitchen to devour the second side of gravlax. It reminded me how spontaneous and simple entertaining can be. That way too often the very idea of “having company” sets us on such a daunting path we bail before we start.

Believe me I’ve had my share of stressful dinners. What made this perfect storm of parties work? Here’s what I came up with:

  • Do it with a pal: Be it a HELPFUL spouse or BFF, teaming up is fun and lessens the burden
  • Keep it simple but dramatic
  • Let the ingredients do the heavy lifting—from flavoring food to easy centerpieces
  • Do what you can ahead of time, including pulling out serving pieces (and slap some Post-It’s on to remind you what goes where)
  • Lighten up—it’s all about your friends

Fall table decorSo, what do you think of my newly morphed newsletter-blog and refreshed website?? For email subscribers, posts will still come right into your inbox just like this one. But there’s a lot more to see and do. Many of you have taken the time to email thoughtful comments about what you’ve read in my newsletters; now it will be easier for us to continue the conversation. There’s a new page with my favorite tools and pantry items, and the Seasonal Selection gets its own page too—all with the goal of enhancing your seasonal cooking life!